For #1: starting_gate's Five things someone said that made Jack and Daniel blush at the same time (http://community.livejournal.com/sg1_five_things/42372.html) (J/D)

For #2: green_grrl's SG-1 kid!fic rec list (http://green-grrl.livejournal.com/23017.html) and these two earlier stargate_search sets of recs, Jack/Daniel as parents (http://community.livejournal.com/stargate_search/35811.html) and Thematic search - parents (http://community.livejournal.com/stargate_search/83725.html).

:-)