Searching for John/Rodney with Jack/Daniel making an appearance fic

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I'm pretty sure this author has written a few of these, but the one I remember most clearly has all four of them meeting for BBQ at one of their houses, and the line I remember most clearly is they're talking about John's hair and Daniel goes, "good hand hold?"  And Rodney freaks out.  Anybody know this one?  Thanks.