FIC SEARCH: Cameron/male character

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I can only remember this one scene in the fic where a young Cameron and his dad are doing their nightly male-bonding. Cameron is talking about a boy at school and what he likes about him and Cameron talks more about "his eyes and his smile than his throwing arm" (might be a direct quote) and his father is surprised but mostly ok with it. His father "gives him a newer version of the birds-and-the-bees speech where boys can like boys" but tells him "You can't do that if you want to fly" and "Cameron thinks it's the first time he's seen his dad ashamed to be in the Air Force."

You'd think with the details I remembered about that scene I'd remember the whole thing, but no luck. Help?